Not so much

That’s so much! — a more intense version of: “That’s a lot!”; and yet another way to say: “Da Fuq!!!!????” This ejaculation is usually accompanied by sitting down hard; throwing an object to the ground in frustration; or almost losing consciousness. If it is whispered or spoken softly; then this is even worse. A reaction to being confronted by a life changing moment involving People, Events, Timings, or Situations.